So the blind date with Bachelor #3, Ritalin, left me confused. I can't tell yet if he's a dud or if I just need to get to know him better. I've been told sometimes it takes a couple of weeks to really know whether or not he's the one for you, so I guess I'll just have to give him some time. It wasn't the immediate connection I was hoping for, but I don't believe in love at first sight anyway. I'll be spending some time with him every day for two weeks, so I'll know pretty soon if we're going to make it work or if I have to dive back into the dating pool.